Legacy by Sudha Menon
Letters, once again, this time some well known or as the author says eminent parents write letters to their daughters. Letters to the daughter were made famous by none another than Jawahar Lal Nehru, when his letters to Indira Gandhi came in the form of books. I remember reading them when I was a kid and the impression is that of a father trying to keep in touch with the daughter while he is in Jail, or when he is away from her, and he mentions small little things to her, things that a father tells her daughter. So, I was keen to hear what the successful parents of my generation tell their daughters. The list of parents writing is luminous. Does the book live up to my expectation? – In a very limited way may be.
Book is organized alphabetically by parent’s name, so when I read Ajay Piramal’s letter first, I found it too preachy and too generic only to discover that this is going to repeat for most of the letters. I liked Capt Gopinath’s letter as his words were quite grounded and not much jargon was used. I loved the fact that Jatin Das refused to call it a letter and at most agreed to call it a Note to his daughter Nandita, and his note was the most personal note that I found in the book. Renuka Ramnath’s journey through her letter was a revelation to me and I loved the fun element in Zia Mody’s letter. K V Kamath shares some interesting anecdotes from his childhood and from his days when he was famously grooming the women leaders in India. I agree with him that no affirmative action is the best action, make merit the criteria and the rest will follow. He goes at length explaining that he respects his own daughter’s decision to not pursue an active career that I do not think was required. Narayana Murthy’s account of the changes that birth of his daughter brought in him is something many fathers would connect with.
What is common in all the letters is their language, making it appear that the letters have been written not by the parents themselves but either by the author or some ghostwriter. Most of these people communicate publicly and if you hear them speak regularly, you know it is not their language and all of them cannot be equally formal in their conversation with their child. Let me take an example, Narayana Murthy is always refers to his wife as Sudha and never just my wife, and that shows his sheer respect for her as an individual, here she is referred only as your mother – just like every other father in the book. Personal touch that you expect a lot in parent-daughter conversation is missing, they could have been generic letters written to anyone in general. The bond or nuances of father-daughter relationship hardly come out. There is lot of gyan and again the same gyan by each parent and the same cherishing of daughters by each of them. I found it too homogenous.
I found it unbelievable that none of them had any issues whatsoever with either their kids or parents. Each of them is like a Rajshri film’s family where everyone is pure as gold and has only good things to share. All their kids are grounded and down to earth, all of them are responsible and all they have to tell them is to follow their own passion, which most of them are already doing. Having said that, this book did tell me something very re-assuring, like all parents these parents also fiercely guard their relationship with their children. They do not share their real relationship with the rest of the world and definitely not make it available for public consumption. How can you tell about the close family things in public, especially to your child with whom you share things in a way that tells them not only about your journey but also about the lessons it taught you, the learning may not always be cliché and positive. After all did our grandmothers not tell us not to trust people with such and such eyes or something like that?
The level at which this book worked for me was getting to know a little personal sides of these business leaders, about their families and what their daughters are doing, what they studied or are studying. Read it to know the success stories of newspapers as humans with families.https://www.anureviews.com/legacy-by-sudha-menon/Book Review Legacy by Sudha Menonhttp://www.anureviews.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/Legacy-Sudha-Menon.jpghttp://www.anureviews.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/Legacy-Sudha-Menon-150x150.jpgBook ReviewsNon-FictionLettersLetters, once again, this time some well known or as the author says eminent parents write letters to their daughters. Letters to the daughter were made famous by none another than Jawahar Lal Nehru, when his letters to Indira Gandhi came in the form of books. I remember reading...Anuradha GoyalAnuradha Goyal[email protected]AdministratorAnuradha Goyal is the author of 'The Mouse Charmers - Digital Pioneers of India' , a travel blogger and an Innovation consultant. AnuReviews - her book reviews blog finds a place in Limca Book of Records for being India's biggest book reviews blog. Know More ...Anu Reviews